Imagine someone had some super basic questions about your background like “where did you go to college?” Or “does the nonprofit you claim to run exist?” Or “did you work for these large firms?” If it was super important to publicly establish you’d been honest, how long would it take you to produce evidence of those things? Because I’m thinking maybe one day tops.
@normative if you really wanted to go hardcore, getting transcripts from a registrar's office during winter break sounds like it could take a week, but almost anything else in the list seems like 1 day?
@normative sure, guess it depends what the standard of evidence is after you've lost control of the narrative to the extent that people are interrogating your life story like "but are you actually gay though".
@elfprince13 @normative that part is really disturbing because I know plenty of gay folks who came out later in life and had lived a number of years as hetero, but most of them never hid that because it was part of who they are
@normative but yeah, you could just Google my name + school name and find press releases from the school, so I wouldn't have ended up in this situation to begin with